My Focus...

My focus has changed so much in the last few years.  For those of you who are moms, you get it.  Prior to my son, I spent all my time on me.  I once had someone ask me, "What do you do all day without children?", I thought it was a funny question, but now I get it.  And I only have one child, she has multiple and grandchildren, so I can only imagine.

I used to take long showers, go to the bathroom alone, read magazines, garden leisurely, take random trips, eat out whenever, go out whenever, but all that is different now.  Yes, my son is 2.  But for me, I have found, that he always comes first.

Before I go out to eat I make sure I have good healthy food for him, before I go anywhere I make sure his nap isn't coming, long showers are really unnecessary (nice, but not with the drought now) and most often he will call "mama" while I am in the shower, usually because he needs something. It's very cute and sweet. 

It's funny the things that I do now, or don't do, because of him.  I would rather spend the morning at the zoo now, or the afternoon at the children's museum.  I often take him to the play area at the park, the mall, or figure out what he might enjoy and we do that.  I love it!  Showing him the world is far better than my world before.

My little blessing, life is good!